Yesterday, a blog the Courier reported this news: according to a study of American women (at least the Americans) are unhappy. I am more unhappy than men (while the latter are increasingly happy), they are more unhappy as they get older, they are more unhappy As the years pass. A proposal for consideration by the two scholars who have guided the project is that "Emancipation socioeconomic women in industrialized societies has led to a decline in their psychological well-being. "
The comments are wasted. We are unhappy because we want to do too much, we are unhappy because we want too much, we are unhappy because of feminism, we are unhappy because we wanted too and now we are no longer able to handle everything that has been given. We are unhappy because we wanted to raise the bar too much of our claims and our desires.
for a while 'I must say that I too have added to the ranks of the unhappy. Then I thought, but when do we care about the problem of happiness of women? My
mother 51 years and seven brothers and sisters. He's only the middle school even if she would like to study, because then the privilege of studying at home was reserved for males and females had to go to work as soon as possible to help with their salary to the family.
She married twenty years with my father that perhaps he did not know well enough, because he did not expect that "was so", and then later we got married without waiting too much, even out of the family. After 12 years has managed to leave my father, with little support and much criticism, even from his family.
When she got married had no white dress. She was pregnant and the white gown was reserved for virgins, real or fake.
I think sometimes when talking about the damage feminism, we tend to forget what was the reality for women. And my mother's condition was normal.
What have they asked the women so heavy. The right to vote? The right to study? The right to have a decent job, or even satisfactory prestigious?
Or the right to leave a man? The right to have a child or not? Or maybe the making rape a crime against our person or depriving the man of the right to kill for a betrayal? What have we achieved so scandalous?
But how many things we get asked? To be good, more good. To be available, but not too much. To take care of the children and the elderly. To take care of the house. Above all they are is by strict principles that we have chosen. To be smiling. Not to break.
now also have to be happy for what we got so far.
not know about you but I intend to defend my right to be angry. And to want much, much more.
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